why achieving a goal can leave you feeling lost
You worked toward something significant for months, maybe years. You finally got there. And then — instead of fireworks — you felt aimless, confused, maybe even a little let down. If that sounds familiar, the film In A World… (2013) captures this experience better than almost anything else I've come across, and it has something genuinely useful to say about what comes next.
when escape starts to feel more real than real life
Why do comforting escapes sometimes start to feel more real than our actual lives? This reflection explores escapism, dissociation, comfort shows, scrolling, and the emotional pull of imagined worlds through the film I Saw the TV Glow.
feeling like you’ve wasted your potential (even though you haven’t)
He was the kid everyone believed in. Now he’s an adult who feels left behind. The Kid Detective (2020) is a story about identity, expectation, and what it means to redefine who you are.
becoming our best self: confidence, curiosity & change in my old ass (2024)
Elliott’s journey in My Old Ass offers a realistic look at what it means to be confident in who we are while still being open to change. Through self-discovery and heartfelt awkwardness, the film shows how growth can feel brave, messy, and completely attainable.
the gift of being young & dumb: reflections on my old ass (2024)
A surprising coming-of-age film leads me into a conversation about inner child work, creativity, and the wisdom our younger selves still hold. My Old Ass reminded me that sometimes the bravest, clearest voice in the room is our young, dumb selves.
life isn’t a movie: reflections on “the end of the movie” from crazy ex-girlfriend
Life isn’t a movie—but sometimes we try to make it one. Inspired by Crazy Ex-Girlfriend’s “The End of the Movie,” I reflect on chaos, meaning, and the stories we create for ourselves along the way.