Trina Bolfing Trina Bolfing

nope (2022) & the pressure to laugh things off

Why do we sometimes laugh off painful experiences, even when they genuinely hurt us? A reflection on Jordan Peele’s Nope (2022), trauma, family stories, and the pressure to adopt the “acceptable” version of events.

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Trina Bolfing Trina Bolfing

nope (2022) & the human need to be believed

Sometimes we tell painful stories repeatedly because part of us is still trying to convince ourselves they really happened. A reflection on Nope (2022), trauma, and the need to be believed.

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Trina Bolfing Trina Bolfing

why we romanticize past relationships

Why is it sometimes so hard to let go of a relationship from our past? A reflection on love, memory, and the tendency to romanticize what we’ve lost, through the lens of Past Lives (2023).

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