nope (2022) & the pressure to laugh things off
Why do we sometimes laugh off painful experiences, even when they genuinely hurt us? A reflection on Jordan Peele’s Nope (2022), trauma, family stories, and the pressure to adopt the “acceptable” version of events.
nope (2022) & the human need to be believed
Sometimes we tell painful stories repeatedly because part of us is still trying to convince ourselves they really happened. A reflection on Nope (2022), trauma, and the need to be believed.
why we romanticize past relationships
Why is it sometimes so hard to let go of a relationship from our past? A reflection on love, memory, and the tendency to romanticize what we’ve lost, through the lens of Past Lives (2023).
feeling like you’ve wasted your potential (even though you haven’t)
He was the kid everyone believed in. Now he’s an adult who feels left behind. The Kid Detective (2020) is a story about identity, expectation, and what it means to redefine who you are.
what is complex trauma? the kid detective (2020) as a case study
What does complex trauma actually look like? The Kid Detective (2020) offers a subtle but powerful portrayal of how early responsibility, loss, and unresolved pain can shape a life.
how friendships change in adulthood: growing apart & finding our way back in life partners (2014)
Friendship doesn’t stay the same as life changes. Through Life Partners (2014), this post explores growing apart, grieving change, and finding our way back to the friendships that matter most to us.