when you don’t know how you feel… so everyone decides for you
When you don’t have an answer yet, but everyone around you is certain you should. That gap — between your own unprocessed feelings and other people’s reactions — is its own kind of stress, and it’s more common than it feels in the moment.
loss of innocence in vengeance: trust, betrayal, & growing up
Loss of innocence is something we all experience, sometimes suddenly, sometimes quietly. In this reflection on the film Vengeance, I share how this kind of loss can shift our understanding of our own corner of the world—and why it matters.