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      <image:caption>Adult Abe’s investigative skills aren’t that different from these scraps from childhood</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The moment when the truth was revealed: Abe was wrong about The Case of Who Stole The Fundraiser Money all those years ago.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It’s clear that Abe isn’t living his best life.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Mindy’s phone call to a very young kid with way too much weighing on him.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Three’s a crowd when Tim joins Sasha &amp; Paige for America’s Top Model night. Awkward vibes abound.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - how friendships change in adulthood: growing apart &amp;amp; finding our way back in life partners (2014) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>The final straw for Sasha as she grieves her changing friendship with Paige…the fast-food restaurant is out of cheese sticks. Very relatable.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Erin, Jenny, &amp; Blair: three friends, two breakups</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Will &amp; Blair, the loving exes</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Leilani &amp; Jibran are plagued by disconnection as they attempt to work together to investigate a murder.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Reconnection can be work - but totally doable.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ricky Baker, the fearsome vandal</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - the apartment (1960): a holiday movie that’s honest about pain &amp;amp; hope - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Fran’s feeling of despair does eventually lift, and joy was able to return.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - the gift of being young &amp;amp; dumb: reflections on my old ass (2024) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - the gift of being young &amp;amp; dumb: reflections on my old ass (2024) - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>The familiar facial expression of having to deal with a teenager being young and dumb.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - sibling bonds &amp;amp; survival: reflections on prey (2022) for native american heritage month - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Naru is preparing for her Kühtammia, so she’ll be ready when the time comes.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>BLOG - sibling bonds &amp;amp; survival: reflections on prey (2022) for native american heritage month - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Ultimately, Naru &amp; Taabe need each other in order to kill the predator who is hunting them.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Should Evelyn go with Waymond, or should she reject him? A new universe is born when she decides.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Jobu Tapaki’s bagel, a black hole of distraction where nothing matters</image:caption>
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